A message from the Acting Head of Primary School
Raising Capable Kids One Chore at a Time
One of my favourite parts of the week is standing at the Year 2/3 gate chatting with students about what they are going to do after school. These conversations are often filled with stories about sports training, homework, music lessons and play dates, and I am always reminded of just how busy our children and families are.
Recently, while speaking with one of our students, he proudly shared that as soon as he gets home, he completes his chores for the day. His responsibilities included emptying the dishwasher, taking the dog for a walk and sweeping outside. Our conversation prompted me to reflect on the important role household chores play in the development of children.
As parents, many of us have probably been guilty of removing chores from our children’s “plate” because of their already busy schedules. I know I certainly have at times. However, in doing so, we can sometimes overlook the valuable life lessons chores provide. Regular household responsibilities help children develop confidence, independence and a sense of responsibility. They also contribute to children feeling like an important and valued member of the family team.
Interestingly, a number of studies have even linked the completion of household chores during childhood with greater career success and stronger life skills in adulthood. Chores help children learn persistence, accountability, organisation and the importance of contributing to a community - all qualities that serve them well both at school and beyond.
A few tips when introducing household chores to your children:
- Set clear and reasonable expectations
Let your child know exactly what needs to be done. - Establish regular routines
Consistent routines help chores become a normal and expected part of family life. - Be consistent
Frequently changing rules or expectations can create confusion and frustration. - Focus on small, manageable tasks
Start with achievable responsibilities and gradually build independence over time. - Use encouragement and visual trackers
Star charts or reward systems can help motivate younger children and celebrate progress.
While chores may not always be the most exciting part of a child’s day, they are an important part of helping children grow into capable, confident and responsible young people. If you wish to read further on this topic please refer to the links below:
https://embolden.world/the-neuropsychology-of-chores/
Kind regards
Mark Pressley
Acting Head of Primary School